| Welcome to the November/December 2007 edition of the Ridgdill Family Newsletter. After the second newsletter, and I thought there would be a lot more information to report. I've been trying to get everyone to send me their stories, photos, etc. (I'll still take a good recipe!), but there's still been only two that's sent me anything. The newsletter is still new, so hopefully, it will get better. Please let me know what you'd like to see in the newsletter. As always, I'm open for suggestions. Please send me your ideas, stories, photographs, etc. We can include such things as births/birthdays, engagement/wedding announcements, family reunions, vacations, awards, graduations, deaths/obituaries (Heaven forbid), or anything else of interest; whatever you'd like to see. This is OUR newsletter. Please remember this is a bi-monthly newsletter. So, please get your information to me in time to be included in the next edition. As always, your feedback is appreciated. Thanks. |
| Nov/Dec 2007 |
| It may not be what it seems. A few years ago, I placed a new marker on my gr-grandfather's grave to commemorate his military service. His grave had a small concrete marker, but it was becoming hard to read. Early on, I had been confused by the fact that there was a newer double marker to the right of my gr-grandfath- ers grave, with his and my gr-grand- mothers birth/death dates. I remem- bered hearing the old story of how my gr-grandmother sold eggs, saved the money, and used it to buy the double marker. When she died some twenty- four years after my gr-grandfather, I assumed, since there was already a marker on his grave, they simply placed the double marker on hers. After all, it was only four feet wide. A logical assumption. I thought! The new marker I purchased was placed in front of the small marker where it remained for over a year, until my aunt visited the cemetery. She told me the new marker was very nice. I felt kind of proud until she told me I had placed it on the wrong grave! At that point, I was totally confused. Had I not placed it in front of the small marker? "Yes," she said, "but that's not where he's buried." Just shoot me! She explained that when she was a young girl in the late 1930's, she'd accompanied her mother to help clean the cemetery, as families used to do back then. She, too, noticed there were two markers. Her mother explained that when her grandmother died, and the new double marker was placed, the small marker was placed on their son William's grave who had died in 1891, and had never had his own marker. The family wanted people to know, at least, that some- one was buried there. As I said, it may not be what it seems. Never assume. I doubt if there's anyone else still living who knew the reason for the two markers. Had I not placed the new marker on the wrong grave, my aunt would have had no reason to tell me. No one else may never have known. By the way, I placed a new marker on Uncle Bill's grave. He finally got his own marker. He only had to wait 108 years! jmr |
| Birthdays Amanda Ridgdill Hamrick of Phenix City, AL, will be celebrat- ing her birthday on Dec. 2nd. My mother, Gloria, will be cele- brating her birthday on Dec. 4th. She was born on her father's birthday. Now, that was some birthday present. I love you, Momma. My son, John Michael, Jr., will be celebrating his 29th birthday on December 24th. Yes, Santa sent us the perfect Christmas gift. My niece, Kristina Michelle Lindsey will be celebrating her eighteenth birthday on December 21st. My grandson, James Clayton Akins will be celebrating his 13th birthday on December 27th. Thir- teen going on thirty! |
| Issue No. 3 |
| Past Issues. JULY/AUGUST 2007 Sept/October 2007 |
| 1864 Georgia Militia Reorganization By late 1863, Georgia realized their resources for supplying troops to the Confederate Army were all but deplet- ed. Governor Joe Brown was under constant pressure from President Jefferson Davis to supply more troops. Governor Brown advocated a strong state defense, which became an object of great struggle between Gov. Brown and President Davis. Brown new something had to be done to provide for the protection of women, children , and invalids living in the state. In December 1863, a law titled The 1864 Census for Re-organizing the Georgia Militia was passed by the Georgia legislature. This census in- cluded the names of some 42,000 white males between the ages of 16 and 60, who were not already in the service of The Confederate States. Many of these were exempt from serv- ice due to age or disability, but were deemed able to serve in the local militia, and perform such homefront duties as might be required. To accomplish enrollment, lists were drawn up by counties, and within counties by militia districts. Each one of the 42,000 men enrolled was listed by his name, age, occupation, place of birth, and reason (if any) for his exemption from military service. The reorganization placed the militia into one of three categories, the Militia Active, Militia Proper, and Militia Reserve. The Militia Active was the Georgia Militia turned over to the CSA, and was no longer under state command. This was the 1st Division of the Georgia Militia which had four brigades of infantry with three regi- ments in each brigade. The Militia Proper and Militia Reserve had the home guards and other units merged into it, and would have been known as the 2nd Division if the regi- ments and battalions had been organ- ized into brigades and turned over to CSA command. However, this never happened. The Militia Proper was composed of those between the ages of seventeen and fifty, and if necessary would be the first activated for military duty. The Militia Reserve was composed of those between the ages of 16 and 17, and between the ages of 50 and 60. (cont.) |
| (cont.) The Militia Reserves were organized with the Militia Proper, but were not required to drill or perform any military duties, until the Militia Proper was called into active service. Nor were they subject to any draft, or other com- pulsory process to fill any requisition for troops, upon the Governor of Georgia, by the President of the CSA. This law was enacted to ensure the protection of the citizens of Georgia. An indirect affect of this law was it's protection of men of certain ages from being called into military service by Pres. Davis. As a result, the Georgia Militia became known as "Governor Joe Brown's pets." A further result, and one that affects us even today, is that every white male living in the state of Georgia in 1864, who were born between 1803 and 1847, could be a Confederate veteran. So, if you are considering joining the United Daughters of the Confederacy, or the Sons of Confederate Veterans, and you're not sure if you have a Con- federate ancestor, look at your male ancestors born during these years. It may be you already have a qualifying ancestor, and don't know it. jmr |
| Words of Wisdom Never have truer words been spoken. "When Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!" |
| Words To Live By My grandson will turn 13 in December. He's at that age where he thinks he's grown. He's always right, and everyone else is always wrong. Oh, and he never gets to go anywhere, even though he is constantly going somewhere; never wants to stay home. Sound familiar? Needless to say, this has caused quite a rift between him and his mother. So, who does he run to for understanding? Papa & Ninny, of course. Recently, I gave him this advice. There are two words in the English language that will let you live your entire life in peace and harmony; "Yes, Ma'am." Two simple little words, yet so powerful. No matter what your mother says, just say "Yes, Ma'am." No matter what she tells you to do, just say "Yes, Ma'am." It doesn't matter whether or not you think she's right. She may be totally wrong. Just say "Yes, Ma'am." This satisfies your mother, and let's her tell her friends what every parent wishes they could say, "I never have any trouble with my child!" This not only applies to dealing with your mother, but you can also apply this once you find that "perfect" girl, and get married. No matter what your "perfect" wife says, or whatever she wants you to do, just say "Yes, Ma'am." I've been married 34 years; I know what I'm talking about. I told him that I'd given this same advice to his father when he married my daughter. After their first argument, I asked didn't he realize when he said "I do," that he gave up all rights to ever being right, again? Whatever she says, what- ever she does, she's always right, and you're always wrong. That's just the way it is. Get used to it. Yep, just say, "Yes, Ma'am." This will satisfy your wife, and will let her be able to tell her friends what every wife wishes they could say, "I've got my husband well-trained!" No, this doesn't mean you're a wimp, and it doesn't mean you won't get your way,at least part of the time. You just have to be smart. Pick the battles you know you can win. But, on those occa- sions when you get backed into a corner with no way out, remember the advice your Papa gave you; just say "Yes, Ma'am." He really is a good boy. He's just so hard-headed! |
| I would like to thank Amanda Ridgdill Hamrick, and her father Ricky, for sending me their family information. It's always nice to find new cousins. I would also like to thank Sandy Ridgdill Livingston for sending all the photos. |
| Clay Akins plays center for the Emanuel County Institute Bulldogs C-Team. This year, the Bulldogs C-Team won the Georgia Region 3-A Championship with only one loss. Congratulations! |
| Please, let me know if there's a problem. Well folks, I guess it was bound to happen sooner or later. Since I started the web site, I've never received one negative comment. I've tried to make it the best possible, and I've tried to present the info and photos I've received in a respectable manner. Recently, though, I'm afraid I made a distant cousin in Florida very mad. After receiving some photos, I advised the cousin I had repaired the photos, not realizing the flaws were a result of the email transfer. I received an email stating there was nothing wrong with the photos, and that they didn't need any help with the computer, or with re-touching photos. I sent an email ex- plaining everything, and asked that they please except my heartfelt apology. I didn't receive a reply. Instead, the next time I emailed everyone on the web site mailing list that updates had been posted, their email was returned with a message that they were "no longer accepting mail from this sender." Everyone needs to know how very sorry I am that this hap- pened. I would never intentionally do or say anything to make someone mad, or hurt someone's feelings. If I ever do, don't just cut me off. Let me know what I did, and give me a chance to explain. If I don't know there's a problem, how can I make things right? I pray nothing like this ever happens, again. Take care, and may God bless you all. Mike |

| Congratulations to the Emanuel County Institute Bulldogs on winning their 2nd consecutive Georgia Region 3-A Football Championship. The Bulldogs went undefeated the past two seasons in region play. Last year, ECI lost in the first round of the state playoffs. This year, however, is another story. Not only did they advance to the playoffs, but have thus far advanced to the semi- finals played in the Georgia Dome in Atlanta where they won impressively, and are now on the verge of winning their first Georgia High School Associa- tion State Championship since 1923. They'll face their last opponent Friday, December 15th. Hopefully, they'll bring the title back to Twin City. Go Dawgs! |